Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Deja Vu

Don’t want your hand this time
I’ll save myself
Maybe I’ll wake up for once

-Evanescence


The new guy says he really wants to see me but he's going through a divorce and his ex has hired someone to follow him taking pictures.  (For what purpose?  Texas is a no-fault, community property state.) 

I want to see you but... Didn't I just end this game with someone else?  Don't want to play any more. 

Me:  Having a deja vu moment.
Him:  Deja vu moment?
Me:  Like maybe I should tell you to call me when you're ready to do some of these things we're talking about.
Him:  I can't wait.
Me:  Good.  Go sort out whatever you need to sort out then come back and prove it.
Him:  I will.

I'll let you know if and when he does.  

20 comments:

Brian Miller said...

hope he does...

nice song...

blueviolet said...

I'd be holding off on that too. Good call.

Christiejolu said...

Gosh what is wrong with men these days!!! I know I know...Some women too...Love the song...

Amy said...

Hmm I hope all works out for you. It is okay to have a heart of a 16 year old..

Help! Mama Remote... said...

I think you made the right choice! This makes room for the right man in your life.
:-)

mac said...

He's full of shit, Darlin'.

Sorry.

Tempo said...

Same ol story eh?!
What Christiejolu said...

Vince said...

I expect he has kids. And younger ones at that. So, while Texas is a no-fault State I'm certain that there is a profound Morals component to whom has access to the kids. It could be that a fling with you would deny him any contact 'til his kids are adults.
If not he is full of shit. For that's the ONLY reason acceptable.

Boonie S said...

I wouldn't bother. I'd dig my tomatoes instead.

Have a nice day, Boonie

sage said...

Relationships are always complicated; probably more so these days with instant communications. Good luck.

AmyLK said...

I hope he gets things figured out and calls! But don't wait for him if someone interesting comes along.

Kathleen Scott said...

And in the meantime, love your own company--you're an interesting person.

Bernie said...

You have been there, done that......what ever happens it is okay. You will be fine Jen, enjoy you life.........:-) Hugs

Kelly said...

In the meantime, go on about your life as you want. Don't let it keep you from enjoying life.

gayle said...

Smart move!!

Heff said...

I think you handled that PERFECTLY.

BTW - Does anyone else think the name "Evanescence" sounds like a deodorant spray ?

kathryn said...

Oooooh. I'm intrigued...but that's about it. I'm glad you gave him the (at least temporary)boot. See? This is the problem: Everyone who's an adult comes with BAGGAGE.
It sounds like HIS baggage is particularly nasty.
Tread lightly, sweetie...

Sniffles and Smiles said...

Well, hopefully, he'll prove it!!! Glad you are standing strong. You are very smart!! ~Janine XO

Heather said...

What a bummer. I was soo rooting for ya. Maybe now would be a good time to create a check list that they have to pass before the hope of anything.

Anita said...

Are you kidding us all, and really writing a novel? :)

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